The Master Keys of Selling: Asking and Listening
by Bill Brooks, CEO, The Brooks Group

 

The best way to boost customer impact is to cultivate an empathy for the customer and to understand his or her needs, interests, and desires, and to know how to get them what they want. This simple idea is based on the wisdom I learned from an insurance salesperson who taught thousands of salespeople the greatest secret of success in selling over 50 years ago. And here it is:

The Greatest Secret in Selling:
Show people what they want most, and they will move heaven and earth to get it!

That secret comes from an anonymous source and was first revealed in print by Frank Bettger, in his classic book, How I Raised Myself From Failure to Success in Selling published in 1949. I don't know about you, but I'd bet the Triad has changed a lot in those 50 years! Mr. Bettger used its power to make well more than a million dollars in selling insurance during the middle years of this century. And that's when a million dollars was a lot of money!

Let's take a look at an easy-to-follow plan that can put this greatest secret in selling to work for you. And here it is:

Discover what your prospect will buy, why they will buy it, and under what conditions they will buy it. Then show it to him.

Mastering the Master Keys
The master keys to discovering what your prospects want are asking and listening. They are your most effective implements for opening up the mind and heart of your prospect. Unfortunately, many salespeople have serious misconceptions about the meanings of those two key words.

In old-school selling jargon, to ask meant only one thingñto ask for the order. Often, asking people to sign an order is the first question some salespeople use. It is so common that many of us cannot remember the last time a salesperson asked us a question such as, "How will you use it?" or "What do you like most about it?"

Let's re-examine those two words - asking and listening - but this time let's do it with a value-based selling philosophy in mind. You will see different meanings for those two words when viewed in terms of customer focus:

Asking means that if you ask enough of the right questions throughout the interview you will likely get an order.

Listening means that the most important task of the salesperson is to pay careful attention to what the prospect truly says.

Let's ask two vital questions about listening, then examine their answers:

  • Why do most salespeople find it so hard to listen to what their prospects say?
  • How can you improve your listening skills?

Lots of salespeople have been conditioned to ignore the prospect's needs and desires. What is uppermost in lots of salespeople's minds as we walk into a prospect's turf? To close a sale! Most salespeople focus on what they will get out of the saleñnot what the prospect will get out of it.

The selfish streak in most of us is reinforced by our traditional view of sales. Unfortunately, much of today's selling stresses our needs and interests. We go out looking for prospects to buy what we are "selling," try to "warm them up" so we can lay our "pitch" on them, then "hit - em with the close." If we do it well, we can make big money-for a short while.

Countless salespeople have been trained to use their listening time to think up what to say after-and sometimes before-the prospect finishes. To improve your listening skills, that traditional focus must change. To survive in any crowded marketplace, you need to lay aside your own interests so you can discover and satisfy the needs and desires of your customers. This new focus is different and your customers will notice the difference. It will make your sales efforts successful even where others repeatedly fail; even where you may have previously failed yourself.

Self-Centeredness Is Not In Your Best Interest
Please do not misunderstand. I have never suggested that you adopt a martyr attitude and lay yourself at the feet of every prospect, caring nothing about your own needs. What I have discovered is that there is a vast difference between self-centeredness and serving your best interest. Fortunately, serving your best interest usually serves your customersí best interest.

I firmly believe that the Triad is a place that exemplifies this whole concept well. It has been my observation that there are lots of leaders who do listen to others. I'd like to believe that they don't act only in their own best self-interest. If I believed that they were only interested in their own welfare, not mine, my trust of them would significantly be decreased. Isn't sales the same way. And aren't politicians really salespeople, anyway?


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For almost two decades Bill Brooks has been one of America's most in-demand sales speakers. Bill has successfully accomplished what other sales speakers merely talk about. He enjoys real-world, legitimate sales success, executive experience, in-depth topic expertise, academic preparation, as well as the highest speaking and consulting accreditations. Bill has been a sales executive and marketing manager, an international sales award winner, CEO of a 300 million dollar corporation and successful college football coach with a 70% winning record. Bill is author of over 100 video and 200 audio programs, and 9 books. For more information about Bill Brooks' speaking, training and consulting services; or learning tools, call 800-633-7762 or e-mail
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